Law_of_Introduction_East_Week Day 07

FILIA is the love within the family (of the Mind)
EROS is romantic, sexual and sensual love (of the Body)
STORGE is the love of faithfulness, for ‘better or worse’ (of the Heart)
AGAPE is the love that is without prejudice or boundary, love that is unearned and
freely given. (of the Spirit)

Excerpted from Kathleen Hurley & Theodore Dobson’s book, My Best Self

Daily Guidance:

The Law of Love is the eighth and final Law of the inner circle on the Wisdom Wheel. The ancient Greeks thought Love was important enough to distinguish between four distinct kinds. This quote shows how Love fits into the quadrants of the Four Directions on the Wheel.

Cynthia's Journal:

The Law of Love is often called the master Law.  If we would let Love master us, we wouldn’t need the other 35 Laws.  Instead, we try to master Love.  You can tell a lot about a person by what they Love and who they Love. And I can tell when a student has begun to Love the Wisdom Wheel. They've committed it to memory, and can lay out the stones & say the Laws, without a 'cheat sheet.' When we Love something we know it by heart

Students of the Wheel tend to go through stages, abit like lovers do; the infatuation stage, the disillusionment stage, the maturing understanding stage and so on. When couples study the Wheel, it can give them a spiritual path to travel together. This can provide some insurance against the kind of breakup which occurs when one person in a relationship wants to change and develop and the other doesn’t. The Wisdom Wheel is not a religion and welcomes all Faith traditions.  

The website and these daily emails are labors of Love, quite different from what my husband and I produced when we were working our other jobs. Malcolm Davidson is the webmaster and co-director of TouchStoneCenter and the webmasterIf you haven’t visited the website yet, please do so.  Check out the Personal Relevance Inventory, a questionaire designed to help you see which Laws you most need to study, and find out what your Birth Law is (under the To Participate button).

It is fun to involve others in discussions about these Laws. To help you do this we've developed a set of Wisdom Wheel Cards, featuring the same 36 Universal Laws. The questions and quotes on the back can be read aloud in groups, to break the ice and encourage people to share their wisdom and experiences. Everyone already knows something worth sharing about these bedrock principles. Discussing them can create meaningful conversations and a deeper sense of common ground.

You’ll learn more about the many ways the Wisdom Wheel is used with groups and classes by reading the Journal entries. Since we have four weeks to study each Law, we include readings from other cultures to test the universality. Another example about the Law of Love, from Japan, If you love your son, let him travel.

The Wheel is as finite or infinite as you make it. When I was first introduced to the medicine wheels in 1994 I had no idea they could hold my interest for so long, but the Wheels have changed my life. You get out of them what you put in. I have had the priviledge of introducing hundreds of people to the Wisdom Wheel since then. The words on the stones help make it a more effective bridge between all the cultures and their various wheels.

I have seen many Widom Wheel students accomplish astonishing personal growth, maturing intellectually, emotionally and spiritually.  Sometimes they didn’t appreciate how much they’d changed until a crisis struck and they could see how different their responses were compared to friends and family. Wheel work steadies people in significant, measurable ways. 

Here is a review of the first eight Laws you have been introduced to on the Wisdom Wheel;

Balance

Awareness

Self

Right Relationship

Cause & Effect

Process

Faith

Love